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While relationships can be incredibly rewarding, they also, as the old adage goes, require a lot of work, and though diamonds may be a girl's best friend, every girl looks for the kind of real love that lasts forever. Read on to hear some of the best advice out there to find and keep lifelong love.

1. Be yourself, not the version of yourself that you want someone to see.

Yes, this may be a mouthful to say, but here it goes: It’s always better to show a person who you are from the get-go, instead of trying to get him to fall in love with the version of yourself that you think he wants you to be. Capiche? Moving on…

2. Likewise, see the man in front of you for who he is, not for who you want him to be.

There is no better recipe to destroy a relationship than constantly expecting your partner to be something he’s not. That’s not to say you should silence your own needs, because you should always make sure that your most important needs are met, but asking your partner to be an extrovert when he is clearly introverted is a way to constantly make him feel inadequate and underappreciated.

3. Communication is KEY.

It’s common knowledge, perhaps almost even a cliché, that communication is the building block to any relationship. But what does that mean specifically? Do you feel comfortable expressing your feelings, both about yourself and your significant other? Do you feel like your partner listens to you and that you also listen in return? Do you make each other laugh, support each other and respect each other? If you can answer yes to these questions, then your love is made to last.